San Diego Meetups and Event Spaces

Massive list of groups:
https://sdtechscene.org/groups/

A couple of fairly large and active groups:

https://www.sandiegojs.org

They tend to meet at coworking spaces or corporate HQs (eg Intuit, Turbotax)

https://startupsd.org meets here the first month of every Monday:

This place has an upstairs lounge that the Ruby people have used in the past:

For our trip to San Diego I reached out to both SDJS and to Synergy for venue advice. Waiting on replies for both.